Tuesday, October 13, 2026

Evolving

 It's something of a genre on the Internet: young women struggling to master

their weight, and young men chirping in with advice. Because there is a concern

about female weight problems: a girl who is overweight is never at a stable weight. 

There is something tragic about it: she is letting go and gaining, or she is starving

herself and loosing, but at bottom, neither strategy is sustainable. And worrying

about it is at the center of her daily life.


Very often, the counselor will use the 'add healthy foods' strategy. The girl can show

herself dining on bacon poutine and a milkshake and the coach will simply say 'Just

add spinach to that!'. It's a step in the right direction. To the extent that one has eaten

a balanced meal, hunger will come back gradually for the next one. But at the core of it,

the young woman will need to let go Fast Food hopping at odd times and settle for a

healthy eating plan aka three meals a day, properly paced.


 The coach below belongs to a newer, obviously more knowledgeable generation. 

He gets into buying and cooking food, and eating the right thing at the right time 

aka three meals a day. He also does not mention insulin, but is cognizant of how 

dopamine works. That's more recent: dopamine is not serotonin, it is not pleasure 

but is the habit- forming neurotransmitter. That milkshake tasted good and solved the 

immediate hunger problem. The person will be attracted to milkshake images, will see 

places that sell them the next time she feels desperately hungry because that is what 

handled it the last time. So the coach cries that was not the right reaction. Good work!


Let me share something about my own life. I am a Senior now, but well remember my

childhood breakfasts. Sweet cereal was never the healthy breakfast; it was what will get 

the kid's milk down on a bad day now that the War is over. Supermarkets were a new 

thing and a variety of cereals on the shelf was one of the first things to offer choice and 

colour in those evolving places...


Just saying...



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A souvenir song, about young love:


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